for my bestie..siew

to my bestie,
siew..
don be upset.
i was once like u before.
someone told me this before..
"wat is meant to be yours will be yours no matter wat"

u must pluck up ur courage to find your own happiness.
& nvr tell urself that u don dare to do it.
its impossible that no one loves u..
there must be somebody..
its jus that u dono.

single & being attached has both advantages & disadvantages.
when u're single,
u tot of being attached.
reasons: wanna hav someone who loves & shower concern to u.
when u're attached,
u tot of being single.
reasons: squabbles can made one very tired & loss of concentration in work & life.

therefore..
let it be natural..
don worrie that u'll be a old maid.

we are still so young ok!
u've plenty of time to choose among so many guys.

i often felt insecured of this & that.
but realised that its useless.
cos it simply make ur life worse.

lesser thinking = lesser worries + lesser tears + MORE happiness
unneccessary thinking = more worries + loss of concentration + more tears + LESS happiness

sometimes,
if u feel like crying out loud..
pls go ahead.
crying out really makes one feel lots better.

i'll be always be there for u.
i'm ur guardian angel.
someone whom u seldom see..
maybe once a year..perhaps once in every few years.
but i'm always secretively viewing ur blog.
jus that u dono all this.

i'm very busy in work these year due to some changes in job scope.
but i'll still make out some time to go online.

meanwhile..
always believe what ur heart tells u so.
believe in ur intuition.

nvr doubt urself for u may lose ur way of life.

loves,
von